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An American woman living in Wisconsin (威斯康星州) offered to
teach English to a Japanese woman who had moved into the same community.
"Before each lesson, and on each and every visit," the American
reported, "the Japanese lady brought me a gift-a book, some paper
sculpture, flowers, or candy. It was embarrassing."
Unknowingly, this American was experiencing
a part of protocol (礼仪) rooted centuries deep in the Japanese culture.
In America, valuable gifts are surely out.
A proper (适宜的) behaviour on a gift is to take the person to dinner, or to an
entertainment or a sporting event. On the contrary, gift-giving is a custom in
Japan. According to Business Tokyo magazine, among the Japanese
"gift-giving is a necessity, not only a small thing as in the West".
In Japan the proper gift is thought to express the giver's true friendship,
gratitude, and respect far better than words can, So if you plan to visit Japan
or to have Japanese visit you here, be prepared.
So you know nowadays gift-giving plays a
very important role in society. Now let's see what happens in other countries.
Australia is known for its kindness and
honesty. So proper gifts, such as a business diary, a paperweight, or a coffee
cup might be presented as a memento (纪念品) of a business meeting. At a trade
show, T-shirts, ties, baseball caps, or a pin may be proper mementos. Anything
more than these types of gifts could cause embarrassment.