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Imagine a family is having dinner at a restaurant.
What are they doing? Maybe they are eating and drinking. More possibly, they
are looking at their own phones and ignoring (忽视) one
another. These days, this is a very common scene and there is a word for it:
phubbing.
Phubbing is an ordinary part of modern
life. When a conversation gets boring, we turn to our phones.
Often, people are using their phones to
chat with other people or look at past memories. It's funny. They could be
chatting and making memories with the people next to them. But most of the time,
they are losing themselves in an unreal world alone. That is not a good thing.
A study says that phubbing may ruin
our relationships. When married people become phubbers, their relationship
stops satisfying (使……满足) them and they may argue more. Phubbing hurts friendship, too.
People say their phubbing friends don't really respect them.
But why do people become phubbing? It's
because there's a whole world inside our phones. That world's pull is very
strong. It's almost like a drug. People can't control themselves, so it's hard to
blame (责备) them for phubbing.
If others ignore you, be patient with them.
Remind them to put their phones down and talk to you. You should pay attention
to your phubbing habits, too. If you spend more time on your phone, stop. Put
your phone away, look at the people beside you, listen to them and have fun
with them.