—I will not come unless Jenny ____________.

    Chinese eating habits are different from those in Western countries. In the west, everyone has their own 1 of food. But in China the dishes are 2 on the table and everyone shares. If you are being treated by a Chinese host, there must be 3 food prepared for you. Chinese are very 4 of their culture and will do their best to show their hospitality(好客).

And sometimes the Chinese hosts use their 5 to put food in your bowl or plate. This is a sign of politeness. The proper thing to do would be to eat the whatever-it-is and say how 6 it is. If you feel un-comfortable with this, you can just say "thanks" and leave the food there. Don't 7 your chopsticks up-right into the rice bowl. Instead, lay them on your dish. The reason for this is that when somebody 8, the shrine（圣殿）to him has a bowl of sand or rice with two chopsticks which are stuck upright in it. It is impolite to set the teapot down where the spout（壶嘴）is facing 9 somebody. The spout should always be directed to where nobody is sitting, usually just out-ward from the table.

    Don't hit your bowl with your chopsticks. Beggars hit their bowls, so this is not polite. Also, when the food is coming too 10 in a restaurant, maybe some people will tap their bowls. If you are in someone's home, it is like offending the cook.